Teenage Drug Addiction
Why teachers and parents can not discipline children with behavioral problems at school and at home?
1. Are they too soft with disciplinary methods? 2. Do children are threatening abuse of the authorities? 3. How can you improve when schools are reporting worse, such as smoking, drugs, teenage pregnancies, abortions, gang fights, theft, prostitution, pornography addiction, gambling, gamming addictive? Apollyon, its response will undoubtedly note that the parties. Thks for your open mind – maybe if you open too large can cause everything to quit.
I have fourteen years, so having in mind that this is from the perspective of someone who is still in school. Maybe that's what you need. 1. Are they too soft? Yes, in a sense, they are. When I was in elementary school, I was always ashamed and afraid that I look bad for a teacher, let alone reprimanded. That was enough for me to disagree, because it was embarrassing to get in trouble at that age (almost everyone wants to be the good of noodles. ") But today, after passing through middle school and my freshman year in high school, I'll tell you scolding, detentions and suspensions are rather a reward of punishment in the environment social. Children who are scolded just laugh and gossip about how reasonable the teacher is later, no matter how oblique, which can be (and generally listening to another student has no objection, because that is the attitude of fashion). How one arrest is a fantastic conversation piece, and a suspension more or less, only earns the respect of the student body. At school, at least, is much more constructive than destructive to get into trouble. 2. Hm. I would say that some of them might be, but I do not generalize to all children. There is a lot of exaggeration in my classmates, I know. However, if I did something wrong at school or at home and someone ran and hit my ass, I do not respond well, I was angry. And even adults can not think that is necessarily a correct response on my behalf, and "If it hurts enough, the boy stopped," really does not matter. Efficiency is what matters, not how "should" respond, we respond the way we respond – simple as that. (I assume we're talking about strokes. What else could be considered abuse? Emotional abuse is absolutely untolerated.) 3. How can we improve? That's a very good question. Honestly, many of them come home. If there is a home with problems, there is not an excess of winner, or a troubled kid. The problem itself may vary between parents who do not listen to parents who abuse, and everything makes the child feel little need to rebel or not listening. The lack of discipline could also benefit from something like teenage pregnancies, I think. I know that smoking and drugs is more or less established in a gang of children my school, and that's more of a social outlet (children can do it to rebel or look cool). teenage pregnancies usually I see, are the result of misunderstanding. The girls think they're in love. They have sex. What can you do? They think they are in love and think this man – the father – is the one. From abortions of pregnancies. Gang fights come from the social atmosphere, you do not like, you want to "win." Assholes assholes beating or beat victims to imbeciles, idiots, or hitting the victims. I think that much of that influence comes from home. Gambling and gaming addictive comes from boredom, I think. Hope this helps. I'm being totally honest, here.
The Story of a Teenage Drug Addict
