Drug Rehab

should my daughter give up her dead beat boyfriend(who is never there for her during her pregnancy?)?

my dughter who is 18 and is 7.5 months pregnant and has a boyfriend who was to go for treatment at the rehab in edmonton and never has….he still lies to her,doesnt tell her when he is in town and is still hanging out with the same guys that got him into trouble in the first place(drugs,lieing,cheating)My daughter has lived with me for the past three months. im the one who takes her to the doctors or the emergency and buys her clothes and the food she needs.i just wish she would see the light….see how much she is hurting me and her sibilings aswell. she believes this is normal and that he is trying.the thing that worries me the most is that she plans to move to edmonton with him after she has the baby.i just know it aint going to work and she will be right back her in the long run.

She needs out of that relationship…Especially after this baby is born being around a guy like that is a mistake. He is hurting everyone around her..Its prob going to take a while to see that with the fact that he is her childs father. Just reassure her that u will be there to take care of the baby and her and will help her get on her feet. Whatever u do dont let her move with this guy,this is an abusive relationship and she and her child can get hurt by all of this. Taje her into some couseling just the two of you,have a long long talk with her etc. You sound like a good mother and i believe u and her can get through this and u will try everything u can to get her out. Good Luck!